Thursday, May 2, 2024

Patty Senior Tribute

Senior Tribute Patty 2024


Patricia Nadine and Mama

Patty holding Grandpa Keeley's (80 yrs) hand

Bursting Into Life 

Almost three weeks before she was due to arrive, I danced out of the doctor's exam room and drove myself to the hospital. I wasn't in labor, but my doctor decided that she'd rather catch the baby that was making her way into the world with or without my help that day. 


So, there we were, a couple hours later and the baby was coming so quickly that she was outrunning her own heart. The doctor was getting worried and had the nurses prep me for a C-section. 


This wasn't my favorite idea, so I asked her for a chance to push. She told me she's give me a quick try, but…it only took one.


Patricia Nadine (named after her grandmothers) was born two days before her grandpa's 80th birthday.


We felt that she would be an amazing mother, (among other things) and that we could give her no greater honor than to name her after the two greatest mothers that we know.


She is so wanted and so loved. She was so TINY and delicate.















 

















I had a couple of experiences with her when I was pregnant and when she was new:

When I was pregnant with Patty, I was reading a book about missionaries doing great miracles in lands far away and I felt a little bit, melancholy, maybe that I had never had a chance to do anything like that and probably never would. I had chosen a relatively quiet life, with a small circle of influence. 


Anyway, I felt a distinct impression that maybe this baby, along with the children that I was raising, would be the ones who would have a far-reaching impact on the world.


I know more now, and it's the small things that we do that bring about important changes, and that the things that the world calls important are not necessarily the most important things.


When Patty was very tiny, I looked into her little face and somehow knew that her spirit was a lot older than mine. 


Patty stayed little for a long time! I remember a friend who gave birth on the same day Patty was 4 months old and had a pediatric appointment. Both the newborn AND Patty weighed 9 lbs and 2 oz!


Her body may have been small, but she came packed with a punch! We soon found that little miss Patty-Pat was a sassy-pants and could hold her own against any of the older kids.


Advil Cold and sinus














She was an excellent climber, jumper, kicker, rider and if she had wings I believe she would have been gone without a trace. 


She was ADORABLE and could get her Daddy to do just about anything she needed him to do.




Worked really hard to learn to read. Willing to do a summer program and by the end of the school year she was getting into trouble for reading half the night.


Par cor throughout house with friends. Climbing light pole.


Surprise us with a solo end of 6th grade year.


Spindly little sass.


Worked really hard to make the Varsity soccer team, practicing all summer with two different High Schools and a city rec team.  When she sets a goal, she accomplishes it.


Going from show-off and seeking glory on field and court to working to assist and being aware of all the players. 


Friend group. 


Focus on most important, mentoring: eating disorders, leading, scholarship, friendship.






Patty Keeley

Wheelhouse

1st Ward

5 May 2024

Let God Prevail

I can throw a stick pretty far. 106 feet to be exact. My ability to throw a javelin in reality isn’t really that deep, but today I’m going to try to make it deep by talking about prevailing, specifically letting God prevail.

For four years I have been throwing javelin for my track and field team. Over the four years, it has turned into my favorite sport. My first throw ever went about 20 ft, hit the back of my head, and probably brought laughter to those around me. But over the four years, I figured some things out and am currently 2nd place all time at my school. Something about watching a javelin fly beautifully in the sky, getting to stand on the podium, and being good at it influences my mood and ego more than is probably healthy. With any sport, how much technique you have, your mental toughness, and your physical ability is what will set you apart from other athletes. Javelin is very technical, no matter how strong you are, if you’re not able to efficiently transfer your energy into a throw that is at the right angle, the javelin is not going to fly very far.

If you were interested in doing javelin, I might ask you, are willing to put in the time? Willing to learn technique? Willing to gain muscle? Willing to be frustrated? Willing to be overjoyed? President Nelson asks similar questions in his 2020 talk, Let God Prevail, but instead of javelin, he talks about life. He asks, “Are you willing to let God prevail in your life? Are you willing to let God be the most important influence in your life? Will you allow His words, His commandments, and His covenants to influence what you do each day? Will you allow His voice to take priority over any other? Are you willing to let whatever He needs you to do take precedence over every other ambition? Are you willing to have your will swallowed up in His? Consider how such willingness could bless you”.

I think letting God prevail in my life is a lot like javelin. While for javelin technique is the most important thing for the jav to go far, in my life, willingness to let God prevail is what is going to allow me to go far.

With doing any sport, pain is part of the experience. Pain that comes from agonizing hill runs where I question why I choose to do track as my lungs feel like they are going to burst like a balloon and my quads scream to be relieved of the pain, but those pains soon turn into muscle that allow me to have speed and momentum when I throw. The growing pains happen in my life too. In moments like when the pain of grief from losing my Aunt and Grandma in a car accident was life altering, letting God prevail in my life was how I found peace and joy. I found peace from the choice of forgiveness towards the guy in the other car, setting me free of anger, and allowing room for empathy to beautifully grow in my heart. The pains in my life bring the opportunity for me to grow closer to God, and understand his mercy and grace, and his love for me and for his children.

To be good at javelin, you have to have commitment and sacrifice. Commitment for me looked like going to practice when I could, and sticking with javelin for all 4 years of highschool. Just like how going to practice is part of the journey of throwing a javelin, daily effort in letting God prevail in my life is needed. I have found great joy in going to practice, but also in my effort to have God be part of my life. Daily scripture study, repentance, and prayer have been valuable tools in my life for when I deal with trials. Weekly temple trips, taking the sacrament, and going to young womens has not been a waste of time, but a place of joy. All this has made me more prepared to progress and grow. Making him a priority has only blessed me, and opened up opportunities, just like how making javelin a priority has only helped me to become closer to breaking the school record.

President Nelson put it in better words in his 2020 October Session talk, Let God Prevail. He says, “it takes both faith and courage to let God prevail. It takes persistent, rigorous spiritual work to repent and to put off the natural man through the Atonement of Jesus Christ. It takes consistent, daily effort to develop personal habits to study the gospel, to learn more about Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ, and to seek and respond to personal revelation…the only way to survive spiritually is to be determined to let God prevail in our lives, to learn to hear His voice, and to use our energy to help gather Israel…My dear brothers and sisters, as you choose to let God prevail in your lives, you will experience for yourselves that our God is “a God of miracles.” I would like to add on, Brothers and Sisters, as you choose to let God prevail in your lives, you will experience joy, strength, growth, and beauty.

I throw javelin because I’m good at it, but it also builds my confidence and brings me a lot of joy. I let God prevail in my life because to me he is beauty, love, grace, forgiveness and peace. Prevail means to prove more powerful than opposing forces; to be victorious. So while I might prevail in javelin, letting God prevail in my life brings me way more joy than a stick could ever. I invite you to all, in the words of Elder Gong, to “Trust him. Let him direct your paths. As you do this, you let God prevail in your life”. I promise it is never too late, and I promise your lives will be blessed as you allow God to prevail in them. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.





Israel=let god prevail

Prevail=prove more powerful than opposing forces; be victorious.

“The word willing is crucial to this interpretation of Israel. We all have our agency. We can choose to be of Israel, or not. We can choose to let God prevail in our lives, or not. We can choose to let God be the most powerful influence in our lives, or not.” -Russel M Neilson, 2020 october sesion

“The Lord is gathering those who are willing to let God prevail in their lives. The Lord is gathering those who will choose to let God be the most important influence in their lives.”

“When we speak of gathering Israel on both sides of the veil, we are referring, of course, to missionary, temple, and family history work. We are also referring to building faith and testimony in the hearts of those with whom we live, work, and serve. Anytime we do anything that helps anyone—on either side of the veil—to make and keep their covenants with God, we are helping to gather Israel.”- could talk about temple work, hooray!

“By choosing to let God prevail, she is finding peace.”

They too are longing for the wholeness and joy that come to those who are willing to let God prevail in their lives.- talk about joy

“Are you willing to let God prevail in your life? Are you willing to let God be the most important influence in your life? Will you allow His words, His commandments, and His covenants to influence what you do each day? Will you allow His voice to take priority over any other? Are you willing to let whatever He needs you to do take precedence over every other ambition? Are you willing to have your will swallowed up in His? Consider how such willingness could bless you”.

“your willingness to let God prevail in your life will allow your covenants with God to remain intact. The Savior will heal your broken heart. The heavens will open as you seek to know how to move forward. You do not need to wander or wonder.”

“as you choose to let God prevail, you will be led to find and understand the absolute, eternal truths that will guide your life and help you stay firmly on the covenant path.”

“imagine the courage you can muster as you choose to let God prevail in your life and as you plead with Him to strengthen you.”

“When your greatest desire is to let God prevail, to be part of Israel, so many decisions become easier. So many issues become nonissues! You know how best to groom yourself. You know what to watch and read, where to spend your time, and with whom to associate. You know what you want to accomplish. You know the kind of person you really want to become.”

“sisters, it takes both faith and courage to let God prevail. It takes persistent, rigorous spiritual work to repent and to put off the natural man through the Atonement of Jesus Christ.19 It takes consistent, daily effort to develop personal habits to study the gospel, to learn more about Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ, and to seek and respond to personal revelation.”

“the only way to survive spiritually is to be determined to let God prevail in our lives, to learn to hear His voice, and to use our energy to help gather Israel.”

“Now, how does the Lord feel about people who will let God prevail? Nephi summed it up well: “[The Lord] loveth those who will have him to be their God. Behold, he loved our fathers, and he covenanted with them, yea, even Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob; and he remember[s] the covenants which he [has] made.”21”

“The Lord has pledged that He will “fight [our] battles, and [our] children’s battles, and our children’s children’s [battles] … to the third and fourth generation”!”

“My dear brothers and sisters, as you choose to let God prevail in your lives, you will experience for yourselves that our God is “a God of miracles.”23 As a people, we are His covenant children, and we will be called by His name. Of this I testify in the sacred name of Jesus Christ, amen.”

Prevail


“Trust him. Let him direct your paths. As you do this, you let God prevail in your life.”-elder gong

“Belief is a choice. Faith includes your desire and your willingness to act. When you choose faith, you see and live in a different way—in God’s way.

Feel your happiness and joy grow and deepen as you choose to believe and live with faith on God’s covenant path.”

“ Please be patient with God and yourself. Spiritual experiences come line upon line, experience by experience.”

“As you exercise faith and effort, I promise your desire and choice to believe will bless you and those you love all your life.

By choosing to believe, you take an important step toward letting God prevail in your life.”

“Sometimes, you need courage to stand by your friends. Other times you may need courage to stand a little apart—not to judge them or feel superior but to choose the right by doing something different.” -no judgment

“let God prevail in your life includes changing and coming closer to God even when we make mistakes, which we all do.”

“Please, “be still, and know that [He is] God.” Let God prevail in your life.”

“Heavenly Father loves you and wants only what is best for you. Let Him be your Guide on your path through life. When you let God prevail in your life, you let Him multiply the blessings He desires to give you. This brings enduring joy to Him and you.”- gong


“Through His loving Atonement, He provides a way for us to be redeemed from sin and death.2 As we show our gratitude to Him by diligently living His commandments, He immediately blesses us, leaving us always in His debt.” Becky Craven 2020 october

““I cherish the gift of repentance and seek to improve each day.”

“Our daily choices will either help or hinder our progress. Small but steady, deliberate changes will help us improve.”

“In addition to the transforming power of our Savior’s Atonement, the Holy Ghost will support and guide us as we put forth our effort. He can even help us know what changes we need to make. We can also find help and encouragement through priesthood blessings, prayer, fasting, and attending the temple.”

“The Savior can help you heal and change while surrounded by those who love you.”

“I hope I have changed over the years. I hope I have changed since yesterday! I hope I am a little kinder, less judgmental, and more compassionate. I hope I am quicker to respond to the needs of others,

and I hope I am just a little bit more patient.”





Monday, January 15, 2024

2023 Family Newsletter

 2023 Keeley Family Newsletter


🎵The wheels on the bus went round and round this year. Round and round, round and round. The Keeleys on the bus went up and down. All through the year. 🎵


🎵The accountant on the bus will tell you that for every tax problem there is a solution that is straightforward, uncomplicated, and wrong. 🎵

Sam received his Bachelors in Accounting from USU, secured a job and will begin his Master's degree after tax season. He's still the king of board games.  


🎵Anden i bussen sagde kvak kvak kvak.🎵

Kate (15) decided to learn Danish. She's been studying it daily for over two years with an app on her phone. She also did robotics, weight lifting, baseball (first girl to pitch for her school!), and started driving.

Katie's always been a bit of an odd duck in the very best way; she once even wrote a personal manifesto poem around a silly duck hat she wears. Basically, she's a smart STEM girl with her own quirky style; take her or leave her.

We decided to take her: to Denmark. We (7 of us) had a glorious trip; visited old churches, Tivoli park, viking museums, the beach, LegoLand, and the Lego House. There we bought Katie a Lego House Exclusive model DUCK signed by its creator. How cool is that!?!


🎵The Ladies on the bus go wah, wah, wah. Nah. 한국 배우들이 너무 섹시하다! 🎵

In yet another chapter of "You Can't Make This $#:! Up," Becky was diagnosed with breast cancer. She mostly recovered in time for the court date from the auto crash, which was completely exhausting. November brought her  first run-in with COVID. She's very resilient.

She also watched about a zillion Korean shows with the ladies in her club, had monthly culinary adventures with our niece Mari, and wrote her weekly newsletter. She can't keep a secret to save her life, and the kids have been merciless when Becky revealed a plot ending and ruined a surprise. It's been fun to have her here for many reasons, but one of the best is that we have seen family whom we normally wouldn't.


🎵 The naturalist on the buszzzzzz…🎵

Liz has also shown a lot of resilience this year. She possibly found THE migraine medicine and was feeling so much better until she also got stupid COVID…

Liz has an actual greenhouse in her room for her pet plants, and she spent her waking daylight hour(s) outside in the garden this year with her herbs. Becky’s cat Shiloh has decided that fresh 

catnip is the BEST! Liz's still the animal whisperer and has taught Rocco to "Trick or Treat." She's an excellent groomer when she feels good enough to do it. There's a neighbor dog that can't walk past our cul-de-sac without dragging our good friend Lynne to our door to see if Liz is available for a visit.

🎵The senior on the bus goes in and out.🎵

It was so fun to spend time with Patty (17) in Denmark! We've rarely seen her otherwise, as she's been with friends,  played soccer, basketball or track.  She (sometimes with June) watched every episode of Bluey this year! Patty will attend UVU and has been preparing to go to the temple and serve a mission after graduation this spring.


🎵 The doer on the bus went swish, swish, swish! 🎵

Once again Sarah had an amazing year with her art, music, game design, animation, writing, math mentoring, sewing, wisdom, grace, and humor. She’s attending UVU and hoping to do an internship next fall. She spent a lot of time, thought and money on her first tattoo, and used the event as an excuse for a nice mother-daughter get-away.  It’s beautiful, just like she is.


🎵The Mommies on the bus go, "sh, sh, sh!"🎵

is June's (1 ½) favorite part of the song that's been on repeat since about February. When I asked Alexa how many times it has played that specific song this year there was a pause, crackle, and then the little cylinder exploded.

Junie loves ducks, meow-meows, baking, eating, playing in water, being outside, the moon, riding in laundry baskets, and playing "open it" with Christmas presents (a game Grandma taught her.) She's considerably cuter and smarter than any other child, probably.  The night she was dancing and singing, 🎵"Grandma, grandma, grandpa, grandpa" 🎵on our bed during a slumber party misnamed, we changed our will and deeded everything over to her.

🎵バスの車輪はぐるぐる回る🎵

Andrew and Rashi are great parents and are excelling in everything else they do. 

They enjoyed a trip to Japan last fall, leaving Junie with her Abuelita and then us, which was very wise. They're welcome to travel anytime, as long as Mayli and Dailen are willing to take the  night shift. (They usually do.)


🎵 The wheels on the mower go round and round 🎵

Mayli and Dailen Ferguson have been spinning their wheels at school (UVU) and work. Dailen's lawn care business has been very successful, and Mayli’s just started an online business selling care packages. She's been working full-time as a nanny and provides a lot of respite care for Becky. They're longing to adopt a baby; either privately or through foster care. Please spread the word.


🎵The quality of mercy on the bus is not strained🎵

Anna's (13) middle school group and the school both won first place at the Shakespeare festival in Park City.  She's got great friends, a shiny new mouth full of money (braces), and is Junie's favorite toy.

🎵 There's no sleeping grandpa on this bus 🎵

Paul's not even on the bus – he continued to work from home, but rode his bike into the office a couple of times a week. He's still programming for Find a Grave at Ancestry.com when he's not building batting cages at the HS, helping the robotics team, or cheering at one of Patty's games. He's been teaching a lively class of five year-olds at church.

Paul and a friend went on a week-long hike last summer, and they're looking forward to an 80 mile jaunt through the mountains in 2024. It sounds like my version of hell…I'm


🎵 The grandma on the bus! 🎵

It's my (Jeri) favorite thing to be. Oh, the joy! 

I'm so happy that everyone has been safe, well, and nearby. It hasn't always been this way, and there are no guarantees, so this window of time is a gift. I’ve been using this relatively crisis-free chapter to do some trauma healing. My goal is to improve my health, see the humor in life, and start writing again.  Every day I've experienced God's love and grace, and for that I'm so very grateful. I witness that He loves us and we are His children. We can depend on Him.


We're thinking about you as we celebrate the birth of our Savior and blast this crazy-bus careening into 2024.           


🎵All through the town 🎵


Merry Christmas and Happy New Year from the Keeleys and Fergusons



We invited Grandma Patty and Grandpa Rod to our Christmas Eve party this year and everyone opened a shirt to wear for the picture:
Front Row L-R
Dailen: Most likely to hate the Christmas T-shirts
Kate: Most likely to crash Santa's sleigh (this one should have been for Patty, who actually DID a couple of days prior)
Lizzy: Might as well lay under the tree; we all know that I'm the true gift of Christmas
Sam: The best way to spread Christmas cheer is teaching math to everyone here
Sarah: (Festive T-Rex) Fa-ra-ra-ra-ra, ra-ra, ra-ra!
Back:
Jeri: a festive Rocco
Anna: Most likely to be mistaken for an elf
Paul: Most likely to fart on Santa's lap
Patty: (broken gingerbread man) Oh, snap!
Andrew: Most likely to start the shenanigans
Rachel: Most likely to be Santa's favorite
Junie: a festive duck
Grandpa Rod: two gingerbread men partially eaten, one says, "My legs hurt" and the other says,"What?"
Mayli: Festive pineapple with sunglasses Mele Kelekemaka
Grandma Patty: Santa riding a cockatiel
Becky: Santa flinging cats merrily from the sleigh shouting, "Cats for everyone!"

Sarah posed us and took the picture.